Signs of Attraction

Body Language Signs of Attraction

Budge Please!

Irrespective of where you have met him and irrespective of where you are going to meet him, does he offer you a seat next to him? Does he ask his friends to budge a little aside so that you can sit next to him? If yes, this is an obvious sign of male attraction. Closeness is the first of the body language signs of attraction. Even though he may want to be close to you, the situation may put him on guard. Don’t panic or be judgmental, give him some space and he’ll come back. So if the answers to the earlier questions is yes, there you go!

Read the Eyes
As the old adage goes, eyes are the windows to the trapped soul. Considering that it’s an old adage, it’s tried and tested too. A firm eye contact has a lot of power. A confident and unwavering eye contact, means the person is surely interested in interacting with you. Now, the ball is in your court, bounce it back, or better, don’t!

Copy Cat
The last time you copied, it was unethical. Copying the actions, gestures and gesticulations of the person you are attracted to, is one of the obvious body language signs of attraction. It’s natural to mirror someone you like, so if there is someone who likes you, the body language will show.

Say Cheese
The most easy and sure body language of attraction is a simple smile. Getting a smile back from the person you are attracted to, is half the battle won. And a smile with an eye contact is a powerful combination that just cannot go wrong.

Precious Touch
Touching while talking is also another of the body language signs of attraction. Usually, women tend to do this more than men. If she touches your forearm while talking, or slaps your wrist or touches you on the back while moving in a crowd then she likes you too.

Easy Lean
If she leans over you to take something or pick something up, then there are no two ways about her attraction towards you. Don’t move away while she trying to lean over you, because she is just doing it to be close to you. So let her be, as that’s her way of saying ‘I like you’.

Body language and signs of romantic attraction have an epic to tell if you are interested. To determine the attraction towards you, silently observe the person, and this time try to listen to the language of the body with your eyes wide open! Body language in attraction is way different from body language in routine life. Body language and attraction signs are many, but just a smile and eye contact have a lot to say. Here’s your chance to find out.

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Teenage Problems

Problems come in two categories: Problems that you have no control over, and problems that come as a consequence of something you have done. Examples of the first category include things like cancer and the death of a parent. You deal with them as they occur as best you can. Examples of the second category include drugs and pregnancy. You prevent these in your own life by being smart and learning the facts ahead of time so you can avoid them. The book The Teenager's Guide to the Real World is a great place to start learning the facts.

What if you, personally, have a problem? Or one of your friends? It matters, and it is real. It doesn't matter what the problem is: as soon as it affects you personally in some way, it becomes important.

The first step in solving or coping with a problem (or in helping a friend with a problem) is recognizing that the problem exists. For example, if you have "a problem with drugs," nothing will happen until you recognize that you have the problem. Only you can fix it. That is what makes recognition so important.

Once you recognize that the problem is there, you can begin to understand it and your options. One of the best things you can do is find someone to talk to. That someone might be one of your parents, an adult you trust, a teacher or counselor at school, a minister or priest, or a person on a 1-800 help line (see below). Talking really helps, no matter what your problem is.

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Teenage Relationship

How To Handle Teenage Relationship.

Teenage relationship problems are par for the course. While every relationship has its issues during the teenage years the ups and downs seem to be magnified due to raging hormones and inexperience. Yet teens don’t always recognize the signs of a troubled relationship until they are too embroiled in the situation to get out or to get out unscathed.

While there are a number of signs that pinpoint a relationship that is either not working or is in danger of falling apart, some signs that point toward a breakup are simple and can be handled easily:

Arguing: Avoid never-ending fights or bickering. Instead, try to reason with your partner, and understand his concerns. Do not belittle his problems. What might be a mole hill to you might be a mountain to your partner. Try to understand where he is coming from, and respect his decisions.

Support And Encouragement: Support your partner in his endeavors. Even if one party does not enjoy or participate in sports the other party should respect the time and work that their partner puts into the sport in order to do well. Support your partner by attending his sporting events and allowing them the sleep and practice time needed in order to be all he can be in his chosen activity. The same is true of other activities,such as drama school politics or after-school employment.

Don’t Tread On Family and Friends: Never cut down your partner’s family or friends. Allow your partner to maintain relationships with his friends and family. At the same time, both parties need to spend time together as a couple. This is not always easy but can be accomplished with a little work.

Obsessive Behavior: Constantly checking their partner’s cell phone and e-mail is a surefire way of causing issues between the two of you, as well as with his family and friends. If you respect your partner’s ability to decide whom he speaks with, this issue won’t arise. If you cannot deal with certain issues, such as your boyfriend taking calls from her old girlfriend, it’s not unreasonable to speak with him about this. If he promises to stop and doesn’t maybe it’s time to move on.

Controlling Demeanor: One of the toughest things to learn during teenage dating is that you should have control over your own actions, and your partner should have control over his own actions. When you become a couple, it does not mean that you control the other person’s actions, speech, the way he dresses or where he hangs out, whom he hangs out with or the places he chooses to visit. If you have an issue with what your partner does in his spare time, talk to him. If some of these places and/or people are dangerous, voice your concern. If your partner doesn’t agree with you, but his behavior is clearly dangerous, tell his parents. It’s better to have your partner angry with you than to allow him to get into a situation that can cause bodily harm.

Don’t Compare Relationships: Don’t bring up an old boyfriend, and don’t compare your current relationship to a past relationship. While you can consider the differences and similarities in your own mind, your partner will not be anxious to hear about what a former boyfriend did right and what you’re doing wrong. Instead, talk about this issue with your partner in a manner that is not threatening and does not involve an old flame.

Dealing With Someone You Don’t Want To Date: If you tell someone that you are not interested in dating him and he doesn’t leave you alone, it’s time to involve a higher authority, such as a parent or teacher.

Unhappy Relationship: If you’re dating someone and you are both unhappy, it’s time to end the relationship.

Blind Dates: If your friends set you up on a blind date and you’re interested in going out, then go. But if your friends are harassing you about the situation and you don’t want to see this boy, don’t. The choice is always yours.

Remember, you’re dating, not getting married. Teen dating should be fun. Although many relationships started in the teen years end quickly, you want to be able to have fond memories of your experiences.

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